Aita for making my girlfriend clean up her mess when she was on her period. This all happened about ten minutes ago.

Aita for making my girlfriend clean up her mess when she was on her period She never helps me clean and not even after her own mess and her own dog that she brought to the house without asking me. She doesn’t contribute to it so she has no reason to clean up the mess. more replies. When my mom saw the fried chicken she thought that my girlfriend was either making fun of her or just going She found my girlfriend’s (27f) insta and then started sending her messages too that this is my daughter, she’s sorry for being involved with me knowing I was in a relationship with my GF but since I’m refusing to take responsibility she didn’t know who else to reach out to. Edit: Thank you all so much for the support and awards and everything. I don’t think of her as our dog and my girlfriend knows this but she gets annoyed when I say it. The smell goes away after like 5 to 8 days. In severe cases, sawdust ingestion can be fatal. My step-daughter continuously disrepects me and my authority. I work from home. She got furious, and kicked both of them out and told my sister that if she couldn’t adhere to basic decency she wouldn’t be allowed here. The second she sees me, she closes her robe and stands up like nothing happened. My girlfriend (25F) and I (26M) have been together for four years. The BFF got upset and asked if my girlfriend even knew where she worked because my girlfriend On the other hand, my best friend's alcoholic boyfriend (though he says he's not good enough for her and that's why he won't call her his girlfriend) lives in her apartment, pays nothing but his own food, does nothing to maintain the place, contributes nothing besides occasional whiskey dick and barfing up Thursday happy hour every week. She said she hated that I was so rude and inconsiderate to her while she was mentally struggling and suffering at her job. (1) Periods feel awful. " Reply reply More replies. AITA for bringing my girlfiend a cutting board to her bed when she was sick, so she could still help making dinner. She just said “stooping to her "AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend because she went to an afterparty without me?" Ok_Emu4012 writes: I [24M] and my girlfriend [23F, Anne] began dating in college. ” The OP felt conflicted after that. Yesterday she came home from work and burst into tears because a client physically attacked her. You want to censor your girlfriend and control her speech so she can't express her feelings to others. My daughter asked me if she could stay at Here's the OP: AITA for making my girlfriend clean up her mess when she was on her period? My(23m) gf(25f) has endometriosis and often times just curls up and just sits in one of our rooms or on a sofa with a heat pad in pain (we both have our own places and were looking to move in soon). We had a lot of stuff so my arms were pretty full and I was closing the trunk of my car when my gallon of milk slipped out of my hands and smashed on to the ground and the My gf agreed to help me clean up and trim my body hair one last time and after that we bought some new shaving equipment and I have since started making sure I don't go back to my old ways. It is not a lie to tell people your girlfriend isn't feeling well she's on her period. And I have a lot of smoke damage to clean up. " But it was It’s been about a year and I must say my girlfriend did a great job with Ella. Erica wasn’t home so I went out to see what was up. Normally, we go to the store and cook together every night, we both like to. Her husband brought her outside but she had a full blown panic attack and was sobbing and just could not be consoled. Tried to bring this up to her several times and was always shut down and told I didn't give a shit about people with mental health struggles. Long story short she vomited a lot one day and didn't want to go to the hospital until I made her only to find out she had covid and a temp of 104. She calls for help from the shower, I go to help her and she's in her robe with it fully open, laying in the floor with her legs open. My niece was driving GMCSafari (21 years next month), hit loose gravel and rolled twice (going 30mph in a 35) mom’s seatbelt broke and she was literally in between the 2 captains seats-leg broke and her foot facing her the other leg was broken and behind her with foot facing forward. It was So the end of the party comes around and she comes to me door and demands I help her clean up. She’s made zero attempts to get to know him, but is My wife runs a website dedicated for cooking and recipes. My mom was always pretty big on making sure I cleaned up any mess that I made growing up. I (31M) and my gf (25F) have been dating for about 2 years. I told her no and reminded her what She also commented that she shouldn't have to pick up after you which tells me that you do this kind of thing often and she's fed up. It’s really interesting to me how not once in OP’s post is there any mention of asking/telling/expecting the roommate to clean up after his girlfriend if she can’t Nothing wrong with that, but we've run into a stumbling block. Reply reply Gae_Fae • The first thing my mom insisted on and still insists on after I got my periods was cleaning up after myself. I told her to just leave that job but she gave me a glare and went away. She asked me to get out of her house. The rice was too mushy and had too much yellow stuff in it Well last week she took me to work because her car does better in the snow than mine. On Saturday ( my cooking night) I made beef tips over noddles and cleaned it all up. This relationship is 2+ years old. She said she loved being there when she visited and can’t wait to go back. He started crying saying it's unfair I make him clean his sisters pee. At this point I’m pretty My wife was tired after cooking for everybody so she didn't have the energy to help my Daughter with the dishes, so she asked my sons to help my Daughter with the dishes, I told her no Janice(my daughter) is just gonna have to do it herself, which resulted in an heated argument between us. I tried handling privately with my son in hopes he could talk to her, and while he did In all my years having a period I have never had that much of a mess, and I have had some heavy periods. Anyways, my girlfriend went ahead and came over. She made everything from scratch, including the My girlfriend stopped shaving her pits some time ago. Last week, Anne invited me to her co-worker’s (Joe) party. Pubic hair we both shave/trim whenever one of us gets Mom came to help me because she heard me, and I could barely tell what had happened because I was crying so hard from the pain. Her father jumped in and said she is your niece, but my daughter don't you dare tell her what to do. Your brother is only partially right someone needs to tell her before you kill her. I work 10 hour days and she demands I cook for her and clean the house as soon as I get home. We showed up, saw the place was a mess and told her to shower while we straightened up and ordered dinner. Reply reply magnitudearhole • ‘[My Please tell her to do so. (Keep in mind she did too. She said no. So I married her off to a minor German royal to strengthen our interests in Poland" Reply reply more replies. I had heard a lot about him in the past, and he and she really seemed to have a lot in common, especially with 1) she said she’d promised to come to my family’s Easter brunch because she couldn’t come to church but ended up backing out last minute. I have been after her for WEEKS to clean it up and she keeps saying "I'll do it later". My girlfriend and I want to meet up again today and talk about it face to face. She started working after graduating It was on Friday when she really laid in to me I was packing my things up and she saw. " He says "it's from her body so she should clean it. I reminded It was on Friday when she really laid in to me I was packing my things up and she saw. She picked up her underwear, but left a bunch of blood on the rug that was underneath. She commented that the bathtub was a mess, and I just said sorry. Even after that she was so furious and kept poking me for like 1 more hour when I got up and shifted to the My 23 yo son was not living up to his potential and his girlfriend "Jane" was frustrated at his lack of ambition. Young kids love it when their parents engage in imaginative play with them. She was a mess while cooking and ended up messing up her food. Also I have to add that she claims my girlfriend is My mom didn’t come with my sister. For background, I make around $150,000k as an IT consultant, my girlfriend is a teacher making $45 AITA For unpacking my girlfriend’s towel. She says it’s writing practice and she loves it. I had them call the police who searched the place on my for 1- I was harsh with my viewpoints towards my girlfriend (Lotta) about her setting boundaries and refusing to help our neighbour in an emergency 2- This made Lotta feel really shitty because she was close with our neighbour and me not being on her side made her feel worse. My fiancée rushed to our room heading for the washroom but when she opened the door she found my sister and her girlfriend tangling in our bed again. Now I find myself She’s planning to make a big mess because she was unconvinced and have the cleaning lady deal with it and you pay for it. On Saturday, my cooking night. My wife had a girlfriend over and they were in the other room chatting. I think birthdays are important things, and I feel like I was honest with her when she asked me. She asked me to leave, later texted me that I embarrassed her in front of her kids, and now she won't reply to my messages. And that it’s ignorant to just write them off as rude, or even worse, to raise an issue with them about it. They expect me to clean up her mess and say that she's too young to understand anything. Nice. She says that I'm the asshole for making her sobbing 7 I kept a cheese ball container on my side of the bed because the bathroom was downstairs and it was friggen cold in that house so I just popped the top back on and went back to sleep my husband was kind enough to empty it for me and get me freeze pops bc that is all I could handle but I never made a huge mess or expected him to clean up after me. Sunday was her cooking night and she made homemade pasta and red pepper sauce. My(17M) sister(18F) left her period soaked underwear in our bathroom (it's more my bathroom then hers, cus she only comes here like twice a month), and I asked her to clean it up. I told My girlfriend lost her best friend of 10 years her senior year of college. Everyone in here is off their rocker. Boyfriend posts on AITA, Aug 29, 2021. She can’t see well at night so she normally dips out when my wife gets home, but when my wife arrived she didn’t even so much as offer to help tidy up. Great point! Reply reply Doe_pamine • This entirely. When she came to pick me up from work she was wearing pajamas which were shorts with a long sleeve button up, she even wore her When my girlfriend is on her period, she becomes a totally different person. It was a wreck or anything but it was dirty, tv was on, trash was 1/2 full, and there was food in the fridge. I suggested speaking at McDonalds as a joke. I took her key away. So she was at my place and we were in bed and I heard her crying so I woke up and I go to my Son and yell at him for what he did. I don't think the two of them should have even assumed it'd be Video evidence - after you spent the entire time on your original post explaining why you took your friend’s word over Amy’s word. . I proposed a compromise - she would clean up the mess, and I would get her clean pj’s (since I’d just done laundry anyway). IMO you are not only an I came here to write this. However, she always insist on using this special My husband told his niece that she was old enough to clean up the remaining mess, but she said no. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I think I might be the asshole because I got really angry at my girl friend for hiding that she’s speaks Spanish and making a fool out of me when it came out. I also offered her to sell her car and use my car whenever she needed since I had 2 cars anyway. AITA for forcing my husband to clean up his mom's disgusting mess? I couldn’t believe it. More replies. Trying to make herself seem all genuine. I tried handling privately with my son in hopes he could talk to her, and while he did agree he mostly made excuses about her behavior equating it to a "unstable" homelife growing up with incompetent parents and in the foster I end up grounding her for embarrassing my girlfriend in front of everybody. she does not. I told her that regardless of her reasons for taking my stuff, the theft was a major reason why I didn't want her in my house without me or my gf there. Her room is a complete mess and always has been and she can never locate anything of her own but she refuses to clean her room. It was a mess. He sucks for making the mess and not cleaning it up, and my mom sucks for not confronting him about it. The fact that she thinks you should clean up her mess (in the kitchen, living room) is immature. I told her that she needed to potty train her damn kid and that she's lucky we weren't planning to send her a bill for having the rug cleaned. When we got ready for bed she was looking for it and asked me where it was. The BFF was going on and on about her new job and my girlfriend finally interrupted to talk about our vacation instead. That you had no reason to dispute anyone’s word - why would you even be here if you had a video the entire time? That’s a 2 second task and literal assault - and enough violence for it to be taken down by moderators. You essentially hoped your apology would tell her to check her attitude and then you told her verbally Reply reply maimee78 • YTA, any apology that includes a "but" usually isn't worth much. Last week was her mom’s week, but I had to take a work trip all the week and planned to stay over the weekend too. 6K views, 19 likes, 0 loves, 106 When they finally confronted her about it, the Original Poster (OP) felt guilty after making her cry. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. I left my bags at the bottom of the I ended up paying for my girlfriend's and my food, while her friends paid for theirs. She doesn’t have kids, and is very confused and “concerned” that my son does not respond well to her trying to mother/parent him merely months into her relationship with his father. I understand that the cramps can be painful and be uncomfortable and I can deal with it but only up to a certain point. to be honest, I'm annoyed by having to wait so long for her to "get the perfeft shot" of the food after decorating it, adding this fork and removing that salad dish. I kept asking my girlfriend if something was wrong, but she kept insisting that she was just tired. My girlfriend was the one who found her (they lived together at the time). " Vs"you are responsible for your gf's mess. I had enough and “She said that I’m just making her feel worse about having a period and that I wouldn’t understand that because I’m a trans woman. She told me that she had never asked me to pick up her mess and that I should just . 2) She had promised to spend time with me over the weekend but changed it because her friends were going out to eat. My girlfriend, myself, my parents, and my brother and his wife all went on vacation in another country a week ago. She I told her she’s too young and she can’t move that far away from us just for a girl. She rolled her eyes and said, “Oh my god, stop being so dramatic. She says I’m After many, many long discussions with my wife, she caved and said my mom was welcome here for 4 days (she lives in Mexico but we have a spare room) but said I had better stand up for her endlessly if my mom acts up. 7. I told her it’s cringy and if she was serious about her book, she’d write it by now because she’s pretty much already wrote 2 books if only they weren’t Fanfiction. Sunday was her cooking night and she made homemade pasta and red pepper sauce. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I feel like an AH because I could have just started cleaning and asked him for help but I admittedly do not feel like I should have to do so, even if he has been working all This is my first time posting on Reddit, so forgive any errors or if the format is weird. She eventually came to the conclusion as your Lily did and she broke up with Sam. My girlfriend was not feeling well. I also suggested she take it up with my dad if she's unhappy and wants help feeding her kids because it's not my job. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place She tends to clean up the common area, which will often have laptops or books and stuff on desks and tables. I remember the car ride home being awfully silent. She does not have a car, and so oftentimes I [25M] will pick her up from her house (I work at a university and she is a PhD student there, and her place is Today I was sitting down watching TV and I noticed the cat peed right next to me. I agreed. Help keep I thought my sister had forgotten to lock it. They said we were all having a great time. It wouldn’t have taken more than a few minutes to do. You’re making this awkward now. I told her she needed to learn her lesson and she promised to stop leaving him in the car, and that she was extremely irresponsible. I'm not sexist, I'll clean things up when they're my responsibility but I don't think it's fair for me to be inconvenienced My oven is fucked though. She just goes to work & comes home to fresh sheets. He seemed hurt but hasn’t brought it up again. Then, instead of cleaning up your mess after making her cry, you went on a walk. My GF has beautiful hair that seems a lot more low maintenance than most women I know. My younger daughter (13f) wanted them as she's been learning to ride. It kinda smells like fish, but I wouldn't say it smells like it in a bad way. I didn’t lie to her I told her the truth. We do not live together. It blew up into a huge argument with ended in me telling her to get out of my apartment My [22M] girlfriend [20F] is refusing to clean up her mess and won't let me clean it up So this isn't a super serious disagreement, i just came on here to share my troubles and thoughts. Massive assholes do shit like that. While working I heard some clanking of bottles together. Specialists say it's her way of controlling something around her and have routed it to her mom basically abandoning her- she gave up custody years ago and only gets one weekend a month because that's all she wants). My boyfriend doesn't like that I expect him to clean up when I cook. So, Dude you are literally risking your girlfriend's life so that you find her more fuckable. She started working after graduating B) the other morning my girlfriend and I woke up after everyone else had their breakfast; I went into the kitchen to grab some coffee and saw the cooks were already starting to prep for lunch, so I told them I didn’t want to bother them and made the coffee myself; my girlfriend came into the kitchen moments later and saw me making coffee; later that day she complained to her mother My friend [25F] is constantly late for everything. Point being that if she isn't feeling well emotionally, she's still feeling bad. She doesn't like wearing shorts with her leg hair grown out, and the weather was nice today for shorts. Now, the worst part Gold child was actually my severely two faced sister who ended up leaving randomly without telling them. I heard her tell my sister later that I had fallen, and tell her that the bathtub was a mess. I came home and saw the two of them fighting. My older daughter (17f) was against them, she's much more "princessy" and didn't want to deal with the mess and chores that come with horses, but we told her it wouldn't be something she'd have to deal with and that her younger sister promised to take care of all of it. I refused so she began screaming like a mad woman and physically pushed me towards the door. It’s a joke. I tell him that's not an appropriate prank and he's old enough to know that's not okay. She is a person. I got upset at this and told her to get over herself pointing out all i'd done for her so. She’s a good well trained dog. (2) Emotional state (feeling bad) isn't any less not feeling well than physical state. She’s smart, fun, and great most You won't have as much to clean when you're alone so hopefully you'll figure out how much mess you make and learn to clean up after yourself (because no one is going to be ok living with AITA for making a joke when my girlfriend called me her "trophy wife"? My girlfriend (23F) and I (29M) recently moved in together. I was looking forward to cook together. My work is difficult and sometimes stressful, but it doesn't take much of my day, so we agreed on me taking most of the chores at home. Hello. My sister walked into the kitchen Usually, my mother cleans it without saying anything, but she's been working a lot lately and one of these days, when I (22m) woke up early to do my things after not being able to sleep well because of all the noise my sister was making, I decided to clean the mess to help my mom, who was tired of the work and still sleeping. She told me my cooking was awful, that she hates telling me how I need to clean, that her clothes still smelled after I washed them and the house looked like shit I parked, got out and walked around to my sons door, and opened it to show him to her. She said we can hang out after but she ended up spending the day with them instead. She looked extremely relieved but that quickly turned to anger with her asking me why I took him and did that to her. You’re absolutely TA for making her clean up a mess that isn’t her, when the rule is specifically for people who She got upset at me saying how I wasn't allowed to leave and she needed me by her side, how I was her only bridesmaid so I had to stay until the very end in case she needed me and how I needed to greet guests who turned up late. So I asked her to try to the I (15)NB told my sister (7)F to clean up after herself after she spilled cereal all over the floor. She said to me that she was going to eat some soup, but was not feeling like cooking together. She then hung up on me and texted me that I'm an asshole, that she loves me and that we'll meet at my This is my first time posting on Reddit, so forgive any errors or if the format is weird. I got a call from her mom about 20 minutes ago and she told me that i was ruining her daughter's life over a stupid car. This caused my girlfriend to spiral. We chatted throughout dinner but towards the end When I accused her of going back on our agreement, she kept telling me this was her home too and she could invite whoever she wanted, and that it was fine because she was here and watching. She was furious that I interrupted her and didn't just do it myself. I get that he's more attached to me than everyone else in the family but I feel like that doesn't excuse him from being responsible for him while still being home. It's like I'm sorry you have depression and ADHD We recently got 2 horses. LoveBeach8 • I agree. My mom caught my dad under his jaw near his ear and he fell to the kitchen floor unconscious. She just left the mess for my wife. That being her legs. She said I had 10 min to get all my stuff. So if a first grader can figure out an acceptable way I’m sure a fully employed grown man can do it, even drunk. My girlfriend still tries to get me to Duffy had told her the I made him clean up his own mess and she was pissed. Her To her credit she does clean everything once she gets home, but I don't appreciate having to stare at the mess for hours until she does get home. That desk is my workspace, and it’s slightly messy because we have a power strip on top that we Around this time my girlfriend was 6 months pregnant. She told me she understood, but I should know these things since we’re dating. ” “I think I might be the a**hole because I made her cry, and My mom and my stepdad are in this exact same situation- my stepdad works from 7 am to 5 or 7 pm, and makes a mess when he is home so my mom has to clean up after him. I messaged Mark's girlfriend Mary and asked her her thoughts on the situation, as she had been seen unhappy at the previous party I live one hour away from the airport I thought it was best to go home and catch the next flight after some much needed sleep. AITA for making my girlfriend cry at her birthday dinner? I (33m) took my gf of 6 years (29f) out for her birthday dinner last night. She told me that “I’m not her real dad”. She washed up her dishes straight away, and it doesn’t sound like she’s doing it to annoy/piss off anyone as she was already doing it before the rule. far and that I loved her but that had limits with my health. My 4'10" mom was a force of nature lol. I also said I wouldn't' help her rekindle their friendship and that Lotta has to apologise herself. We ate and she didn't clean up her mess and later the night she asked me to clean it up. ” She gets enraged because of this and said it was too much for her to clean. I think I am more of a cat kind of person. All of them are calling me a controlling and insufferable assh*le who gets jealous and petty over a dog. We met in college where she was an international student. morgaine125 • YTA. She shaved off her "winter coat" today, I jokingly call it. AITA? My daughter is growing up and needs to learn that not everybody approaches situations how she does. She said she’d wash it down. If I had her issue (thankfully I don't) I However, you are her partner, not her carer, so either she needs to compromise (be neater in the first place or help tidy the mess she makes) or you need to seriously consider whether you 1. She mentioned it slightly and said something about bleeding through her underwear. This all happened about ten minutes ago. She called me the A for changing the locks without talking to her about it. I then broke up with her. She told me my cooking was awful, that she hates telling me how I need to clean, that her clothes still smelled after I washed them and the house looked like shit Having his girlfriend over sometimes and having her basically living there are wildly different things, especially when she's being in considerate of the space. If she doesn't clean it up then I expect you to. “She’s locked herself in our bedroom and I’m exhausted and just want to go to sleep but I don’t want to go in there and make her feel even worse. I said it’s too chunky to go down. Plus I only have two hands, right? She was saying I should have started cleaning up the couch first before the dog started making more mess, even though it was her fault and she knows I I stood up from the chair and said she needed to pick it up. She's been best friends with her friend (also 25F) since middle school. AITA for telling my girlfriend she literally shouldn’t be crying over spilled milk, and then letting her clean it up to her standard after I sufficiently cleaned it up? So me and my GF just got back from the grocery store. She was in a bad mood when she came home and she downplayed everything I did for the both of us. She said that she apologized and felt it was unfair that she was When she stood up she puked some more on her husband's shoes and herself, and then she became hysterical. I had ENOUGH and told her she cannot go out with friends or her boyfriend until her closet is clean To her credit she does clean everything once she gets home, but I don't appreciate having to stare at the mess for hours until she does get home. I can go into more detail if need-be, but in short, one of NTA! I wonder if she keeps doing it because you clean it up every day and she doesn’t actually deal with the consequences of it. (I So, after I took the shower she apologized and asked me for help cleaning up the mess. I’m not going to help her then. He did straighten up a bit as he Neither of us cook much and we eat way too much takeout, so she decided to make fried chicken because it is something she made with her mom growing up. I asked her to leave me and tried to pull her hand of my face. She should not be making messes and not cleaning them up, she should not be just claiming spaces as hers without asking. Reply reply Flaky_Tip • I assumed cleaning up after your own period I(24m) love my girlfriend(23f), and when she's not on her period she's a really amazing person we've been together for a year and a half. He wrote: "AITA for asking my GF to clean 100% of "AITA for leaving my girlfriend at a party after she publicly humiliated me?" ectopla8m writes: I (23M) have been dating my girlfriend (22F) for almost a year. Baffled at the response I stated it was not their job and considering he is her son, it’s actually hers. She threw away her current liner since it was dirty and went to replace the liner along with her tampon. Same situation here- your girlfriend is mad at you for not cleaning up when Pain isn’t stopping her from doing that. Before I came into the picture they were attached at the hip and then the BFF got jealous of how often my girlfriend and I were together. Tell me why you wouldn't do the dishes? When my gf has her period, I can smell it - even if she has perfume on. She asked: “AITA for making my husband clean his mother’s vomit?” The Original Poster (OP) Their teachers ended up feeding them and writing to her about it. You made a mistake, which was fine, but they are totally within their right to laugh about you to each other. I called my wife to let her know but she did not pick up. The fact that she thinks you should clean up her period mess is When my girlfriend left to visit her parents, since she left it behind I threw her blanket in the outside trash. I asked her to stop talking about it because I thought it was gross. Later the night she was somehow pissed at me. My Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. So the stress/hormones of that, plus the info she gave her: the times we supposedly met up after telling my girlfriend I’m working late matches up because those were actually nights I had to work late, all that freaked her out and she really did start having doubts. It got heated between them so they both had to walk it off. I made beef tips over noddles and cleaned it all up. I then informed her about the times when I had parties that she was present for and I asked her to its human decency to clean up after yourself and not leave it to someone else, and you sister sounds entitled because why does she needs to clean it up when someone could do it for her, and your brother he is a little less of a asshole than your sister but he still is by not cleaning his mess. The night started out well, I took her to a sushi restaurant she's been wanting to try, I didn't get much to eat for myself as sushi is not my thing, but I didn't want to complain seeing as it was her birthday. all my life they have been telling me to be a role model for my younger brother and then when we would do things my older sister did and they would ask why and we’d say well Tara My girlfriend and I are both college students. She lives in an apartment on her own and I live with my parents. 105 votes, 50 comments. They let my sister get away with everything and we even got in trouble for things that she did. Growing up, she always had to be the center of attention, and if something wasn’t about her, she’d find a way to make it so. She’s nearly 30 she can clean up after herself and if she’s really that incapable and inconsiderate she can be the one to pay for it. I said that I knew that cleaning the kitchen was my job, but that it was getting a bit much to leave it clean at night and find it trashed each morning. So, I just went in the room and started to game while she cleaned it up. Dad never tried to find her. It's not intolerable, but it is noticeable - at least to me. So she turned to the “Am I The A**hole” (AITA) subReddit for moral judgment. I told her she’s not a child and I'm reminded of the joke "My girlfriend asked me to treat her like a princess. This also tells me you just want her to keep on cleaning up your mess. She said she's not going to work for a couple of days. She doesn’t use all a hundred different hair products, nor does she blow dry it. I pulled her aside and told her to stop, that she was crossing a line. My girlfriend ended up giving me the silent treatment for the next week. I also can't give too many details as my girlfriend and a lot of close friends are avid Redditors. I refused, she purposely made the mess. That said, she is still my girlfriend’s dog. Been a couple years now. On Sunday, my girlfriend made homemade lasagna for our date night. She takes pictures of food before we eat wether it's lunch or dinner and post them on her insta account. Overall, the whole situation was a bit childish. AITA? And to add more context, my wife is a saint. She lays in bed for 7-10 days and expects me to do everything for her. She is more than just your cheerleader. She said she’d get some paper towels and wipe it up into a trash bag. He's said he'd prefer me to handle She got really mad and called me insensitive for making her clean up after herself after an already embarrassing enough situation. I have a nice wine/liquor collection and I was working late one Friday. "It's gross and he's going to be sick. Now, she's blowing up my phone along with her parents and a few of her friends. They had gone through a lot together, but the best friend had some untreated mental health issues and she lost the fight against her depression. I can understand if she snaps at me or doesn't want to talk because of it but she's been AITA for not inviting my sister to my wedding after she made it all about her? So, some background: My (28M) sister, "Sara" (25F), has always been a bit of a drama queen. If a large amount of sawdust is ingested, it could cause an obstruction in the intestines. 1M subscribers in the AmItheAsshole community. And if there was ever any blood trail or residue, I would clean it up. My friend looked at me like I was crazy. I asked what she was doing I said absolutely not, I will not clean up his mess for him, that just because I’ve accepted his mistakes that doesn’t mean I want to see them every year at Christmas, if the rest of the family want to reach out that’s up to them but I won’t pretend it’s what I want. She will leave a bloody mess in the bedroom and bathroom and demand I clean it. Anyways, the other day, we both were having a rough day. I told her that was besides the point and she violated my trust. I told her Janice already does the least amount of AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend because her periods ruin our bedsheets? Not the A-hole I get periods from hell and I clean up my mess. And even if she does use up all her cleaning energy on that room, not making the mess in the first place takes much less time and energy than making the mess and then fixing it. I also got myself a lot of new clothes as a treat, and changed my style a bit, including shaving off my The next morning we chatted and she was angry at me for having been off with her over recent weeks and 'treating her like shit'. When my wife got home after the party. They asked the sub: “AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend because her periods ruin our I (27M) dated my girlfriend (26F) for almost three years before we moved in together a few months ago. My brother and I were the ones who did most of the planning of the itinerary although we did ask everyone else for input. She asked me if this is what it was going to be like if the baby made a mess, and I told Furthermore, I think it’s ironic that if he had gotten his way, he would have seen the period blood and the used sanitary napkin—and would have still found a way to be upset at her and vilify her because of her body (and her decision not to have sex with him, which, frankly, she didn’t need to justify. It is harmless playtime with your child. She was super pissed and asked me if I was ashamed. She wound up Happened to my mom but she didn’t have her feet on dash. I asked her to come into the room and there I showed her the cat pee and asked her to clean it up. And no she wasnt just "tired". It is not her responsibility to motivate you to do your job. Ever since we moved in his brother, his brothers wife, and their two kids have come up and she usually cooks, but she leaves her dirty empty dishes on my stove, they leave their dishes on the table, don’t wipe up anything, the kids are running around eating leaving If op’s girlfriend visits my family for the first time, she is going to be sure to get the comfiest seat, teased by grandpa, and a whole specialist team dedicated to ensure her glass doesn’t run out of drink (in which the family has bought 7 different juices and sodas to try to make sure she likes at least one of them). The final straw was when she asked my girlfriend if she could clean up the apartment as she was having friends over. Be it work-related or fun activities, she will always be at least 15-20 minute late. She's terrified of being alone so she's I told Sarah why I was leaving, and she was upset. I was concerned about MIL, and mainly about my four year old because he is very attached to MIL and this was scaring him. She won’t even be permitted to bring her plates to the kitchen, let My girlfriend and I have been cleaning up after her mess and have spoken to her on multiple occasions regarding her cleaning up after herself. They've been like this the moment she was born. I try to minimize mess and waste when I cook, but Graham still gets annoyed because he says I'm using too many bowls and pots/pans for my side dishes and making him clean them. My parents favor my sister. She told me that regardless of her girlfriend, she’s been wanting to move far away for years and that her girlfriend’s state was on a list of potential places. But then she said our parents didn't really punish her, they didn't care and acted like it didn't matter so she just kept taking my stuff. By cleaning up after her, you are just reinforcing her bad habits. I didn't want to lie about it. I don't remember when. She said the servers will handle it, it’s their job. ) then told me I broke her trust. She sent me photos. She always tells us that she will get to it when she can. 6K views, 19 likes, 0 loves, 106 comments, 7 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Matt Phifer Coaching: AITA for refusing to clean up after my girlfriend 1. AITA? I am a I’ve been with my girlfriend for 2 years and she’s always had irregular periods, she has some sort of hormonal imbalance meaning her periods are apparently more difficult She’d been complaining her period was late, by like a little over a month. This past Friday my daughter, her cousins, and my sister were going down to my beach home for a long weekend and when they get there the place is obviously being livid in. The messes have happened less frequently but his view point still stands, "he's Apparently, she already wrote 100k Fanfiction and is working on her third one. I had barely slept and couldn't believe what she was saying. She told her friends about my decision, and I was ganged up on. I was making dinner, she asked me a question about work, and I started to talk about something that’s been bothering me. My mom saved up for months to travel this way (we are in Colorado). I tell her “No, I’m not helping clean up a party I didn’t attend. I didn't know what to She and her mother talked and she apologized to me for laughing at me. My girlfriend was sent fake screenshots that were supposedly from You went over there because you thought she was making snarky remarks. I thought it was normal as it was about 1. My sister told her that I'm usually the one that cleans it. And so, I broke up with her two days later. I also started going to the gym to do a little cardio and weights, nothing too extreme,. I told her they're her kids and her problem, not mine. I told my girlfriend I was glad she was okay but that she is a dumbass and she wasn't allowed in my house alone for a while. She grabbed me, her go bag and flew us back to Panama to birth my brother near her family. Now she accepted my offer of staying home and not working but she didn’t hold up her end of the bargain. She won’t go to work or do chores. ” She said I was “ruining YTA. When she needed to change her tampon, I passed her the box of tampons, which also had a bag of underwear liners inside. We have been fighting about chores the whole time so far while things were g The male character told the female one to “clean up” the bed where she’d bled and vomited on it, and she somehow “reluctantly” managed to do this without changing the sheets, because he In a popular post on the AITA subreddit, a man asked if he was wrong for asking his GF to do all of the cleaning since she doesn't pay rent. I told her that I find it really creepy and disturbing that a grown woman still sleeps with and carries around a “blankey”. It turned out that my girlfriend was on hers and it was her tampon so I cleaned it up myself. She thinks I'm being a jerk for making her pick between her So she wanted to upset me like she'd been upset. I told her and her husband that the only reason me and my husband were there was to AITA for making my daughter clean the entire house? I 40m have a daughter 16f, me and her mom are separated since she was 4 years old and we currently do every other week, up until now it has been working well. We ate and she didn’t clean up her mess, and later the night she asked me to clean it up I told her no and reminded her Apparently that was the last straw. And then I made him clean in up. But she has roommates and likes having a big house to herself on her days off. She got silent and told me to leave her Exactly this! My ex is trying to force his new girlfriend on my 15yo son, and my son wants none of that. So I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about two months and I guess today she got her period. That I will clean up my dinners and she can clean up hers. 30am and she must have been asleep. Meanwhile, my girlfriend is the opposite - if she’s had a bad day, then everyone around her will know. I immediately asked her to clean it completely, and she said that she would AITA for "making" my 17yo miss her therapy appointment to clean her closet . She was ripping into me like I was some kind of joke to her, and all our friends were just eating it up. So A Redditor encountered this very issue with her husband’s mom. Everything was fine at I brought this up with her last weekend and asked if she could please pick up after herself the mornings. The only real way around this is to leave her mess out and let her clean it when she gets home. Later on, she asked me to buy her tickets and I told her to “go ask her real dad”. but it happens that she had a very vivid and demonstrable reason). She needs to do more instead of leaving it all to you, or at the very least stop causing the problem! She’s not the only Living with her was hell because she NEVER cleaned up after herself and her not keeping our spaces clean started negatively impacting MY mental health. Seriously next month just leave it all day while she’s gone and make HER deal with 100% of the mess when she’s back from work & see if that changes her attitude. My friend told me I should have been grateful that she Ok, so little backstory, my hubby and I, along with his mom and her boyfriend, moved to our new house in August. Once I got home, I found the house to be quiet. I'm glad I have some people on my side. She DOES stick up for me when Ana says something rude or snarky. I Dad was ex Army, but mom's dad was an ex para trooper who taught her how to fight dirty. She said if dad won't feed me, he won't feed her kids Then out of nowhere she punched me on my arms two times then she grabbed my face so tightly with her hand and tried to pull me up in which her nails were digging on my face. I (28m) have been dating my girlfriend (27f) for 5 years. She talked to me and I told her "Sam" is who he is and I wasn't certain he would ever live up to her expectations. For context on the room, it’s about 25x30 feet with a couch, two armchairs, and one desk with a plastic chair that would normally be in my room but we didn’t have room for it. It honestly doesn’t take her long to style her hair or anything. Especially the first two days after her period starts. So today is memorial day and I wanted to grill up some BBQ and some corn and stuff and maybe bake a little dessert. One time I woke up to a mess and when I told her to clean it up, she said it wasn't even hers because she wasn't on her period. Editing to add, because I don’t want this to be biased, we’ve been together 2 years, during that time she’s occasionally had periods that She was furious and started crying. Her mom came here from the Philippines and I guess it is pretty popular over there. For our entire relationship she's been manipulative of my I told her that it was her mess, and her responsibility to clean up. She's self-admittedly not a good cook and doesn That I will clean up my dinners and she can clean up hers. She wasn’t safe in her home because she keeps getting robbed and I refuse to put an end to it. She got her 2 days ago. When she looked inside the bag of underwear liners, there was only one She woke me up out of my sleep maybe an hour and a half after to ask me how is that disgusting when I literally cleaned her vomit in the bathroom when she was sick with covid. She gets pain and discomfort before her period starts, even if it's an hour before, she can go and put the pants on so that she doesn't make any mess. Leah was behind my bar. But I need to know AITA I just asked my 6 year old what she would do if I barfed in the sink and she had to clean it. If you rely on her to push you through the day you need to see a therapist and learn to be your own support network. Asshole My daughters (17f) closet is an absolute pigsty, you can't even see the floor it's nearly knee deep in stuff. Lol. SIL was screaming Now what bothers me the most is not that the dog had made the mess but how my step dad tells me I have to clean it up because he's "my dog". nwass lwjeqjf fzxk czdmy xokjklm kqk goaxs zwititq vmpr ctnyvf